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“Thank the person you hurt because they have given you a conscious.” – Deepak Chopra
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Wow….have you done something to hurt a person but have no way to reach and apologize to that person? And the guilt is just eating you up inside??
Deepak Chopra says to “Thank the person because they have given you a conscious” A conscious you can now use to prevent yourself from hurting others like you have hurt that person.
Your lesson has been taught through him/her coming in and out of your life and so clear yourself of the guilt of not being able to apologize to him/her in person and honor the lesson learned by preventing the infliction of this pain from happening again.
#wow
Aha moment Thanks to Oprah’s Lifeclass Tour 4_16_12
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I love this, but it also kills me to acknowledge that there are people I’ve hurt.
Yes, I feel and hear you.
The depth of your pain may be so deep that you may have to dig deeper to let it all go. Seek out the wisdom of Iyanla Vanzant to learn how to let go of the guilt that is killing you IF you desire to find the courage to let it go and if you see the benefit behind letting that pain go.
Deepak Chopra was asked this question…. “Why is it important to forgive myself?”
His answer was …”What is the **gift** that is IN the addictive behavior to want to hold on to the shame?”
He answered this question saying”
“The addiction is the search for exhilaration….”
“Use the addiction of shame that you have for healing and transformation [of others who suffer the same as you]”
“Life isn’t happening to you….it’s happening **for** you….. It’s happening FOR you to enhance youself; to move you forward to a greater being”
Remember the people you hurt have been the vehicle to your life lesson; they have taught you something that you are now expressing, which is the desire to do right by them and if you desire to do right by them then you also have the desire to do right by others.
~Achieve that desire~
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